I help high-achieving adults unpack childhood baggage so they can find safe, secure love—without feeling like they’re asking for too much or being too needy.
We’re not just doing dating tips here; we’re diving deep to untangle old wounds and create the kind of love that lasts.
The Struggle is Real (And You’re Not Alone):
On the outside, it looks like you have it all together: a great job, a stable life, maybe even a beautiful home or kids. But when it comes to love, you feel lost, stuck in a pattern of disappointment. You’re smart and successful, yet finding a safe, secure, and joyful relationship feels like an unsolvable mystery. You’re not alone in this struggle.
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Maybe your story is complicated by a childhood where love wasn’t easy to find. Your mom might have ignored your needs or dismissed your dreams, leaving you questioning if you’re asking for too much in love. You find yourself wondering, “If I couldn’t get unconditional love from my own family, where will I ever find it?”
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Whenever you try to get close to someone new, those old wounds resurface. You might get overly invested too soon or feel overwhelmed and run away the minute things get serious.
But what if you could finally change that?
Imagine a life where you love who you are at your core, and
then discovering a deeper, more fulfilling relationship than you ever imagined.
1. You Feel Like You Missed the Secret Handbook on Love.
You’ve got everything else sorted—career, friendships, maybe even kids—but finding someone to truly connect with feels impossible. Just when you think you’re on the right path, it’s like the rug gets pulled out from under you. Ghosted after date number four? You’re left feeling embarrassed, hurt, and like you’re right back to being that kid who couldn’t get a smile from your mom, no matter what you did.
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2. Old Beliefs About Being ‘Too Much’ or ‘Not Enough’ Keep Creeping In.
Deep down, you worry that you’re either asking for too much or settling for too little. You get it intellectually, but in practice? Those old doubts pop up, like when you’re staring at yet another late-night “you up?” text from someone who isn’t offering you real commitment. Part of you knows you deserve better, but another part wonders if this is as good as it gets.
3. You’re Stuck in Patterns That Keep You Lonely.
You’re tired of reliving the same cycle. It’s like you’re always back in that moment when your dad picked you up from practice without a word, making you feel uninteresting and invisible. Now, every breakup feels like proof that maybe you just don’t have what it takes to make a relationship work.
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If any of this rings true, you’re not alone.
And, it can be different.
It’s frustrating to feel stuck in the same patterns and doubts, but here’s the good news: these old stories don’t have to define your future.
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Imagine feeling secure, confident, and worthy of the love you’ve always wanted. What if, instead of second-guessing yourself, you could show up for relationships knowing you deserve the kind of connection that feels deep and true?
What If...
You Could Finally and Deeply Believe You’re Worthy of Real Love
You’re done feeling like love is for everyone else. Imagine going on dates where you feel confident about what you want and know you deserve it. No more spiraling, no more feeling disconnected or doubtful.
You Could Let Go of the Same Old Patterns
You’re tired of getting pulled into relationships that leave you drained and frustrated. Picture breaking free from those cycles, setting healthy boundaries, and finally attracting someone who matches your energy and values.
You Could Create Real Change, Not Quick Fixes
You’re not here for surface-level advice. You want deep, lasting change that gets to the root of the problem. Picture yourself in a loving relationship, with friends who get you, and a life that feels good—inside and out.
My Approach: Practical, Action-Oriented Therapy for Real, Lasting Love
This isn’t about endless talk therapy or quick dating tips. My approach blends deep emotional healing with practical, real-world skills.
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Let’s Get Real: I love analyzing text messages and helping you craft healthy, boundaried responses. We’ll dig into why that “you up?” text triggered you and figure out how to respond in a way that feels good.
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Creative and Somatic Exercises: One session might involve watercoloring while we chat, or a walk outside to connect mind and body. I use tools like EMDR to help release the deep pain that’s holding you back from the love you want.
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Real Steps Toward Change: You’ll leave each session with practical tools tailored to your needs. This isn’t about coping skills; it’s about taking real action that leads to transformation.
Is This the Right Fit for You?
This is for you if:
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You’re ready to dive deep and address the beliefs that keep you stuck.
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You want lasting change, not just surface-level advice.
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You’re open to creative, somatic, and practical exercises.
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You’re ready to explore your past and move forward with clarity.
This isn’t for you if:
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You’re looking for quick dating tips without deeper exploration.
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You’re not ready to challenge your old beliefs about love.
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You prefer traditional talk therapy and aren’t interested in creative approaches.
Imagine Your Future: Confident, Loved, and Connected
You don’t have to keep feeling stuck or reliving the same heartbreaks. Picture waking up with confidence, knowing your worth, and attracting a love that feels safe, joyful, and secure.
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Ready to take the first step? Let’s make this happen together.
Your Choice Today Shapes Your Tomorrow
Right now, you might be thinking this all sounds good, but you’ll get to it later. Imagine six months from now—are you still feeling stuck and frustrated? Or did you take action and start making real changes?
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Don’t let your future self wish you had started sooner. Whether you work with me or someone else, take that first step now. You deserve the love and life you’ve been dreaming of.​
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Schedule Your Free Consultation Now and Start Your Journey to Lasting Love.