Have you ever uttered the words during a conflict, "I can't believe I have to ask for this from you AGAIN,"? Do you recall the moment you realized your partner won't be able to make you feel okay every time there's a fight and then a repair between the two of you? Were you deeply disappointed to recognize that you won't be able to always get agreement from your spouse about something you care about? Ahhh, yes, well, welcome to the in-your-face moment where you have to release