When the landslide of child loss impacts the ground underneath your feet, your relationship with religion, spirituality, certainty and a higher power also may shift radically. When a child dies, people expect the crying, the exhaustion, the unbearable quiet of an empty bedroom. What they don't expect is how far down the loss can reach. It can shake the foundation of what you believe about God, the universe, and whether any of it means anything at all. In my therapy office, gr