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When Grief Meets Partnership: Navigating Child Loss as a Couple
Grief and Child Loss can stress a relationships significantly. Read further to see how we can unburden the unimaginable.
Oct 316 min read


'Landslide' Moments in Love
long-term relationships are both mirror and teacher. They offer us the chance to grow, to grieve what we will never get from our parents in childhood, and to be tenderly seen and truly known by one person better than anyone else. Relationships are not one big decision (despite what they made it sound like in your wedding vows); they’re a million little ones. Moment by moment, you decide whether to lean in or pull away. Sometimes those decisions lead you back to each other. S
Oct 204 min read


When Grief and Trauma Intermingle: A Look at Child Loss and Traumatic Grief
Learn why grief after losing a child can feel like trauma, seven signs to watch for, and trauma-informed ways to heal.
Jun 245 min read


Weight Loss Doesn't Fix Everything: What We Really Need to Feel Whole
Over two years, I shed 91 pounds, yet I still sensed something was missing. I recall the moment I stepped on the scale and saw that I...
Apr 86 min read


When the Holidays Aren’t the Most Wonderful Time of the Year: Embracing a ‘Merry Little Christmas’
Struggling with the holidays? Learn why this season can feel heavy, how to navigate expectations, and ways to embrace self-compassion.
Dec 17, 20247 min read


What is Nervous System Regulation?
Hi friends, I hope you are all getting back into the swing of normal life, in this weird twilight zone around the holiday season. I had a...
Dec 11, 20244 min read


'I Don't Want to Be Here': 20 Normal Grief-Related Thoughts After Your Child Dies
💔 “I don’t want to be here.” 💔
It’s okay if that thought has crossed your mind. Here's 20 totally normal thoughts of grieving parents.
Nov 12, 20245 min read


Sincerity and Shipwrecks: Being Yourself in Therapy
Hi Friends! I hope summertime is treating you well. I find that this time of year feels both slow and fast, which is an interesting...
Jun 20, 20232 min read


How to: Take Back Your Power
Hi friends! I hope you are doing well! Here in Oklahoma, we are enjoying a lovely summer so far. Last night, I sat on the porch while...
Jun 7, 20233 min read


Attachment Problems or Problematic Relationship?
Hi friends! I hope you are doing well. I'm back with an interesting topic that has come up multiple times in my career as a therapist:...
May 24, 20233 min read


Make it Make Sense: 3 Lessons We Gain from Trauma
Hi friends! I hope you are taking good care of yourself in this spring season of weddings and graduations and Mother's Day and the school...
May 19, 20233 min read
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