Let's be honest, most of us have done at least one of these. And if you haven't, you probably know someone who has (maybe you're even living with them). Spoiler alert: I've done all 10 of them at one point or another in my 10-year marriage, and I'm a licensed therapist who sees couples for a living. So don't lie to me and tell me you've never pulled one of these in your own relationship. I know you. You know you. (Quick! Name that movie!) I work with people every day who are

Sex Starts Outside the Bedroom Foreplay isn’t just physical. It’s relational. How you speak to each other while making dinner, who takes on the mental load, whether your partner feels seen and valued throughout the day, these are the precursors to physical connection.